I need advice on what to do with my boyfriend?

leave, hes not being who hes supposed to be. He never really loved you if he's doing this. And if he did, he fell out of it for his ex. If he says he cant be friends with ex's because of history then there wasnt much history with his ex or hes not just friends with her. Her or you? make him answer and bring up the card, he says he has nothing to hide, why should it matter? Look at his body language when he talks to, certain ways people move their eyes, body movement, nostrils flaring, stuff like that. You'll find out everything then and there, good luck